# NVC

[**Nonviolent Communication**](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication) can help process tensions in a way that supports honesty with care and creates conditions for connection and better collaboration.&#x20;

A simple way to do this is to:&#x20;

1. State the issue you observe&#x20;
2. Highlight how it made you feel&#x20;
3. Say what you need to be able to work well&#x20;
4. Make a request of the other person\\

### References

* [Guide to 4 part NVC Process](https://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/pdf_files/4part_nvc_process.pdf) (PDF)


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